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HAPPY BIRTHDAY to William Chua and Mylene!!

3:41 AM

27/9

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to William Chua and Mylene!!so qiao..their birthdays fall on the same day..haha..

Changed my blog song again..LOL..i like to change song..haha..esp now i know how to change..LOL..chose "Yue Ding" by Guang Liang becos MA sang this during the competition!!haha..no lah..i like the melody..like Guang Liang's songs more and more..and hoh, i dun choose song according to my mood sometimes..haha..i choose randomly lah..more of like what i feel like listening then i choose that one.. =) so my blog fans, bear with me for my fickle-mindedness..LOL..

went to work at JJ today..hmm..had not been working there for abt2 mths liao..cos of exams, etc..then when i saw kitty, i got a shock!!LOL..pregnant for 6 mths le..can see the tummy le..hahaha..so exciting to know that her baby will be due soon!!hmm..let me see..now is the mth of sept..3 more mths to go..who knows her baby may be due on Christmas Day??LOL..

after that, went to celebrate william's birthday..at bishan party world..LOL..guess what i bought for him?no birthday cakes, no mooncakes..quick quick!!guess...

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think without the box..guess guess...

TATA!!i bought ALMOND JELLY!!LOL..bought it at prima deli..then i asked for an additional candle..so yup..haha..that was his "birthday cake"..LOL..actually i think it is better than eating one piece of cake..cos very rich..almond jelly is sweet but yet refreshing..LOL..quick!!clap for my totfulness and creativity!!!!muahahaha..so frens, next time, when celebrating birthday with you, dun expect a real birthday cake for me..cos i wun buy it..so boring and lack of originality..LOL..i will buy something that you will nv expect..hahahahaha..and i wun repeat ideas..hahaha.. =P

hmm..on the way back on the cab..well..me and sheena had a little chat..haha..sometimes, it is our own expectations on other ppl that will bring us trouble..since we were talking along the topic of BGR, so i told her that..for eg: A girl like a guy. The girl will expect the guy to like her..she will expect him to treat her better than other ppl..she will expect alot of things from him (often it is silent expectations and it is usually in the subconscious mind) without even knowing whether the guy really like her anot..so in the end, if the guy did not so call "fulfill" her silent expectations,she will get upset and insecure..then she will be thinking and thinking of this "problem"..wondering why the guy din do this and din do that..when in the first place, the guy did not say anything or hint anything that he likes her..which in a case, the guy might not even like her at all, and just treating her as a gd fren..then the girl might just start blaming and hating that guy..haha..so aren't we looking for trouble ourselves? often, we expect alot of things from the person we like..when they do not fulfill our expectations, we get angry,etc..first thing, are we expecting something which they dun have to fulfill?(like the above scenario)..second thing, are we communicating our expectations if both of us have mutual feelings towards each other? =) women are really emotional creatures..so when our emotions get stirred up, some of us think and act irrationally.. =S scary..LOL..

haha..LOL..the above are just my tots lah..accumulated thru past experiences..haha..i was that girl once..expecting alot..in the end, i realised, im wrong and im inviting troubles for myself..so what for?alamak..i still think being frens is the best lah..really..serious..haha..realised that if i do not have the unreasonable expectations, i wld be happier and my heart wun be so troubled..so now, yup, learnt that and i applied it..realised im so much happier and carefree..went thru the sch of hard knocks and learnt it the hard way..LOL..but hey!at least i learnt something..hehe..

now, im learning how to surrender my heart and my tot life to God..sometimes i really neglect my tot life, which is very impt also..must guard my heart and mind ah..esp now is the critical period..will spend my sat at home most of the time to prepare myself spiritually and physically.. =)

oh ya..will upload my team foto soon..the blogger very slow sia..

"I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you never [again attempt to] stir up or awaken love until it pleases."

Song of Solomon 8:4

Updated on 27/9, 8am

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