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is marriage taken so lightly?

6:45 PM

just chatted with my mum.. haha.. so funny.. was angry with her a while ago.. now i am sitting down with her talking.. she told me abt the marriage prob of my aunt from my paternal family.. we are quite close.. cos we used to live under the same roof..

sigh.. is marriage now taken so lightly by ppl? marriage is a committment and promise that really last till their death separates them.. but how come i came across so many divorce cases? in my aunt's case, it is extra marital affair.. is the vow that they made a few yrs ago just lips service? her husband had an affair outside.. ppl say dun wash your dirty linen in public.. but wat i said here are really my tots anf feelings.. not that i purposely want to publicise this matter..

sigh.. isn't the child that is going to suffer the most? althought the child may not fully understands wat happen.. he does know that his dad did something wrong.. in this matter.. my aunt need to do some reflections too re garding why her husband did this.. both party is responsible for this matter.. and both need to admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness from each other if they still want this family back.. being prideful here will only tear the family apart further.. i suggest to my mum that my aunt must be willing to admit her mistakes 1st.. becos she is the one at fault in the 1st place.. of cos this is not a matter of who commit wat mistakes first.. but it is that you got to show humility 1st.. and her husband may see her heart and that she still loves this family afterall.. then can have a higher chance of seeing her husband come back to her again.. dun just use words to persuade or counsel him.. use actions and deeds which speak must louder than words..

of cos wat my aunt did in the past does not justify her husband's doings.. my uncle ought to be repentent and admit his mistakes sincerely and ask for forgiveness too.. wat they decide is going to affect the child greatly.. emotionally, mentally and psychologically.. it is very traumatic for the child if the parents separate.. and somemore my cousin is the only child.. no other siblings for support.. so it is going to be worse for him.. at least spare a tot for their child..

i think my uncle is blinded by lust and also i shld say, there is not much communication in their family.. without communications, how can relationship works?

God says,' do not commit adultery' and He also said, ' flee from sexual immorality'.. his commandments.. his commandments are to protect us and to build us up.. and to mould our characters.. will talk to my aunt and pray for her.. although not a believer, can still pray for her.. hee hee..

posted by cookoxt31 on 6:45 PM
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