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Similarities and differences? only a fine line in between..

4:58 PM

28/12

today.. haha.. since sch started, i think im always late for lecture.. haha.. today is the 1st time im early! wahaha.. feel so weird also.. haha.. can wake up early sia..

today got an additional hour of micro B prac.. at com lab.. wah lao.. william how want us to stay back to finish the report and hand in by 2pm.. im like.. can see my face.. all black and i started to grumble.. and i din even draw much.. only draw 5 circles.. sian loh.. stay back.. then finally.. haha.. we were released! YEAH! then chiong out of com lab.. haha..

hmm.. dun know why.. recently the weather quite cooling.. and i feel cold easily.. even wearing long sleeve top.. a sign of low immunity liao.. ah! got to take more oranges.. but dun like oranges leh.. i like watermelon and honeydew.. haha.. nvm.. sidetrack..

come to think of it.. i think very long i din exercise liao.. putting on more weight than ever.. sianz.. somemore new year coming.. i want to fit in to my new clothings 1 hoh.. lol.. nvm..

hmm.. tml got connection! wow.. cerelia is coming.. haha.. so happy she is also joining campus crusade.. wahaha..

recently.. im reading a book.. it is talking abt relationships that last.. and how to apply His word in all relationships.. whether it is relationship between christians and God, siblings, friends, bgr, etc.. the content of this book is applicable to all relationships.. cool rite? then it talks abt friendship.. the 1st person i think of?haha.. of cos is cerelia lah.. this book talk abt intimacy too.. most ppl will think of physical intimacy immediately.. but nope.. it is abt connecting with each other intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, mentally,etc.. it is abt sharing with one another.. getting involve in each others life.. working towards a common goal and dream.. pushing each other forward.. baring your heart, soul, life, feelings and thoughts.. and of cos.. trust and trustworthiness are very impt factors.. and making sacrifices for friends is inevitable.. it is not abt making sacrifices out of obligation.. but making sacrifices out of love for your friends.. sacrifice your schedule, time, activities perhaps even your belongings.. watever things that you do for your friends.. it must be out of love.. if not.. it is pointless.. rite? thats wat i think..

frankly speaking.. im not a person that can be super open to anyone.. btw.. who can? nvm.. it really take quite alot of time to know me inside out.. and once i can see that you are 100% sincere into building this friendship.. i will too.. i always believe.. both parties need to put in effort to make relationship works( friendships,etc..).. cant only depend on 1 party.. it will not work.. it takes 2 hands to clap.. rite? God knows that Adam cant possibly work alone.. so He created a helper for him, Eve.. it is the same.. God knows that we cant work alone.. so He bring friends into our lives to help us.. to support us.. not that God cant or wun help us.. but He understands that we are still locked in flesh and blood.. we need someone that we can see and touch and feel to help us in times of need.. Proverbs say, A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity..but we still pray and seek God.. there has to be a balance.. but when it is time to make a decision.. who will you obey? we have to make sure that friends dun make us lose our focus on God..

in the process of building an enjoyable companionship, we learn the art of good communication and mutual respect.. being vulnerable, dealing with conflict, and remaining faithful to a friendship or someone do not come automatically..we learn to be an intimate friend by developing these skills..

haha.. haven finish reading this book.. i think i will take quite a long time reading.. lol..

alvin called.. mayb he is coming for watchnight service this friday.. countdown.. haha.. telling me he go pub.. im like.. dotz.. haha.. ultimately.. he still decide not to go.. phew.. no offence ppl.. he said too expensive.. true.. haha.. hope that this time i see him, he will not be so haggard ba.. as a friend.. i want to see the vibrant alvin back again k.. take care k..

* Sometimes.. similarities between 2 ppl turn out to be the worst differences.. it is true.. experienced it liao..

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